It’s their party, and they’ll cry if they want to

Crying has come a long way in politics. In 1972, Ed Muskie wept outside the offices of the New Hampshire Union Leader, and it was, at the time, a political disaster. Americans just weren’t ready to tolerate grown men in leadership positions emoting like this in public.

But that was decades ago. Now, House Minority Leader John Boehner (R-Ohio) feels so strongly about his support for Bush’s Iraq policy that he cried on the House floor in November. And in May. And in February. OK, so the guy cries a lot.

The point is that tears are no longer particuarly controversial. Indeed, to hear some tell it, they’ve become a political tool, used by candidates who need to convince voters that they’re warm and fallible. Take Mitt Romney, for example, who went a year on the cmapaign trail developing a reputation for a robotic delivery, and who is suddenly opening the tear ducts.

Mitt Romney’s eyes filled with tears today as the Republican presidential contender recalled watching the casket of a soldier killed in Iraq return to the United States and imagined if it were one of his five sons.

Adding a poignant twist to a story he often tells on the campaign, Romney recalled the scene at Boston’s Logan International Airport while he was Massachusetts governor to make the point that the country remains united despite its differences over the war or other national challenges.

It was a counterbalance to a moment earlier this year, when Romney told a woman in Iowa that his grown sons — none of whom has served in the military — were serving the country by helping with his campaign. Romney later apologized for the remark, saying it was wrong to equate military service with campaign involvement.

“The soldiers that I was with stood at attention and saluted,” Romney told employees at Insight Technology Inc., a company that makes infrared optical equipment for U.S. troops. “And I put my hand on my heart, and tears begin to well in your eyes, as you can imagine in a circumstance like that. I have five boys of my own. I imagined what it would be like to lose a son in a situation like that.”

For those keeping score at home, the first signs of tears came during his church-state speech, the second came on Meet the Press, and the third came in response to a question about U.S. troops killed in Iraq.

But Romney’s not the only one shedding tears on the campaign trail.

There was also this report from CNN on Hillary Clinton.

Democrat Hillary Clinton got visibly emotional at an Iowa campaign event Monday morning designed to showcase a softer side of the New York senator.

Flanked by childhood friends and constituents who each offered testimonials on the Democratic presidential candidate, a glassy-eyed Clinton spoke noticeably softer than most past appearances on the stump.

“It is very exciting for me to have so many of my friends from my entire life who have come out here, to talk with Iowans, to answer questions, to give you some insight and information about our relationships, about what I’ve been trying to do my entire life, and particularly as an adult,” Clinton said at a campaign event in Johnston, Iowa Monday.

Now, it’s worth noting that there are some cynical interpretations to Romney’s and Clinton’s emotional displays. Both, I think it’s fair to say, are not perceived as “warm” candidates, and both have probably seen internal polls showing they have room for improvement on “likeability” questions. And sure enough, some might say, both suddenly start chocking up on the campaign trail, in the 11th hour. (For one particularly derisive take, consider Dayo Olopade’s item from earlier today.)

And while I can understand people being suspicious of conveniently-timed tears, here’s why I suspect the emotion is genuine: because neither Romney nor Clinton are great actors. I just have a hard time believing that these two have such dramatic thespian skills that they can pretend to tear-up, on cue, just for the sake of political audiences.

They’re talented politicians, but can either really get misty-eyed on demand? I doubt it.

I read on one of the campaign trail blogs that even the trackers from other campaigns were getting a little choked up at those Clinton events.

  • True emotion, sure, but it’s no coincidence the candidates are making themselves this emotional at this point in the campaign.

    And given Hillary’s campaign’s latest round of underhanded, slimy attacks on Obama, I look forward to her crying again, when she gets shut out of the first four states and then loses on Super Tuesday. It’ll be good riddance, Senator.

  • On demand — no. In a prepared speech where the candidates have time to prepare — absolutely.

    Besides it’s in their best interest to show some emotion at this point of the campaign. However, it will not change my vote.

  • Color me confused. So it’s OK to cry? That must mean that the Manchester Union-Leader really meant nothing obnoxious by running a big top-of-the-front-page headline “Did Souter Cry Over 2000 Recount Vote”?

  • Romney: ” I have five boys of my own. I imagined what it would be like to lose a son in a situation like that.”

    yeah, and imagining it is as close as romney will ever get to putting his sons in harm’s way.

  • Listen, as tired as these people are, their professional, objective machine-like veneer has to be wearing a little thin, making it a lot easier to show their emotions.

    For women, tears are more likely to be used against them, than to their advantage, because it starts up the refrain about it not being safe to have someone prone to emotional “outbursts” with her finger on the trigger. The lack of visible emotion gets used against women, too, rendering them too hard and too cold. We’re still damned if we do, and damned if we don’t.

    Men who can show their emotions, though, are treated as being more fully evolved in their emotional development – the capacity for emotion renders them more balanced, softens the edge in a situationally appropriate way. Unless they are crying because they can’t get their way, or for some other inappropriate reason, tears do not hurt men the same way they hurt women.

    If we are at the stage where a woman is running for the presidency, we ought to be able to accept that tears are a human thing, not something reserved for one gender over another, not something that makes a person unstable, or unfit for office.

    I’m perfectly willing to allow a candidate some human moments in this arduous contest, but at the same time, I don’t want the candidates playing on my emotions for political advantage.

  • entheo said:

    Romney: ” I have five boys of my own. I imagined what it would be like to lose a son in a situation like that.”

    yeah, and imagining it is as close as romney will ever get to putting his sons in harm’s way.

    Yeah and worse, he won’t keep other people’s sons (and daughters) out of harm’s way.

  • Well, my fellow Mormon Mitt has a lifetime crying on cue — it’s fairly typical in the monthly testimony meetings we have. So this is not an act perhaps, but it is a well-trained and rehearsed tick.

  • And while I can understand people being suspicious of conveniently-timed tears, here’s why I suspect the emotion is genuine: because neither Romney nor Clinton are great actors.

    Who gave CB the purple Kool Aid disguised as plain tap water?

    Home boy… you’ve lost your way.
    Quit gargling with that stuff.

    Romney, Clinton, et. al. aren’t ordinary human beings.
    Not by a long shot.
    Every moment of their lives is a performance.
    All the world is their stage and all the world is their paparazzi.

    Now for a brutal truth that most of you won’t accept:

    Nothing ruins a person faster than fame and power.
    Those are the two most toxic drugs on planet Earth.

    Want to see the deep effects of those drugs operating on someone?
    Check out Dubya.
    He is totally third rate individual…
    But that little fuck actually thinks he is a deep thinker and a self-made man.
    He is so delusional about his own self-importance it reminds me of that Heinlein line about the little lizard bragging his ancestors were dinosaurs…

    I mean really…

    Life is a performance for these people.
    Every second of their day is held together by hair spray.
    The are as phony as fake dog shit.
    The only thing real about them is that their stink is genuine.

  • Remember, Muskie almost certainly didn’t cry – the only contemporary report was by David Broder, who later said he wrote the story that way because other incidents, not written about, made him believe that Muskie had a temper problem. Broder: ‘What we tend to do is to store such incidents in our minds and then use them to interpret major incidents when they occur.’
    See The Daily Howler, NOVEMBER 28, 2007
    http://www.dailyhowler.com/dh112807.shtml

  • I can’t now find the quote but I’m pretty sure that I have seen — quite recently — another story about Mitt crying (or, at least, saying he did). When he first heard that his church decided not to discriminate against blacks. He first heard of it on the car radio, pulled off the road and had a good bawl in thanks to God.

    As for crying on cue. You don’t have to be an actor to be able to do that. All you have to do is think: “I’m not going to get the nomination; all that money, all that pandering, all of it down the drain…” nd the real, heartfelt, tears appear like magic.

  • But that was decades ago. Now, House Minority Leader John Boehner (R-Ohio) feels so strongly about his support for Bush’s Iraq policy that he cried on the House floor in November. And in May. And in February. OK, so the guy cries a lot.

    That (crying spontaneously at add points in public) can be a sign of emotional problems, or a side-effect of psychological medications, I think.

    He should talk to a psychiatrist.

  • … but can either really get misty-eyed on demand?

    Whenever people talk about crying on cue, there is always some guy or gal who tells you about how all they have to do is think about when their dog died, isn’t there?

    But, CB, I think you are being a little naive here. Haven’t you ever watched Inside the Actor’s Studio? Discussions of crying on cue aren’t hard to come by. It’s a pretty common, or at least a commonly known, phenomenon. Don’t you think there are a lot of people who have tried it in private, just to see if they could do it? You’ve got all the time in the world, really, to discover if you can cry on cue. How many people have discovered that one thing that really starts to choke them up?

    For me, I always get a little emotional when Spock dies at the end of Wrath of Khan (I mean, not visibly or verbally, but it’s something I always react to). There is one more thing in a movie that always gets to me, but I can’t recall what it is now. It ain’t that hard to get emotional.

    That said, I think Clinton was for real, but Romney was faking it.

  • Libra @#12, I think Jesus General had an interesting ex-Mormon take on why Mitt probably did cry when he heard blacks would be allowed membership in the LDS church. And CVCobb01 offers us yet another insight.

    LOL, and Dale is also right about Muskie, wasn’t that more likely the snow melting on his face? And Broder over-exagerating?

  • For every vote a candidate garners by weeping, how many does (s)he lose? One transparently phoney jag could end a candidate’s viability. A series of honest blubberings could do the same. It’s playing with fire.

  • Mr. Benen, take it from one of those “more-dangerous-than-the-Iranians” college professors that ol’ SnowFlake was rattling on about the other day—“crying on cue” is a thing that they’ve taught in college intro-level drama classes for decades. They’re teaching it in the high school drama classes now—and in community acting workshops all over the country. I’m quite satisfied that either of these candidates—Romney or Clinton—could easily recruit an amateur acting coach as part of their campaign staff….

  • I’m quite satisfied that either of these candidates—Romney or Clinton—could easily recruit an amateur acting coach as part of their campaign staff….

    If either of them do it, they probably figured it out themselves, or read about how to do it in a book. Maybe if they had the acting coach sign a confidentiality agreement, I could see a Republican being crass enough to do that (hire one), but I still think it’s pretty far-fethced.

  • Of course, being seen as possibly too cold (as a negative) gives them more leeway to allow those feelings show – whereas someone seen as being too emotional (as a negative) wouldn’t have the same advantage.

    Usually people are taught to choke feelings and keep them from being appearing emotional.

    …Which of course bites them in the ass in court.

  • The Politics of Contrite Spirit: Mormon Tear Jerking.

    Extemporaneous tears are a tradition in Mormon indoctrination.

    One Sunday each month, members attend “Fast and Testimony” services. Doctrine adherents fast for two meals and tithe money not spent on food to the Bishops Stores…. The donations are then deposited in the Church Welfare program — a system exchanging food and sustenance for dignity; members fallen on hard times who stay on Church Welfare too long are soon regarded as shirkers.

    Fast and Testimony meetings also provide the opportunity for the congregation to go to the open mic and expound/exhort a litany of authorized mantras or stories with measured emotion rising and falling in amplitude and tone conforming to the image of a contrite, humble spirit, usually like this: “I love the Prophet; I love the Bishop; I know the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is the only one and true Church of God — that Joseph Smith is a true prophet; and I give this testimony in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.”

    Like breathing, it is popular to cry during Fast and Testimony meetings. Church authorities do it, promote it; the ritual is inculcated into the minds children who are encouraged and rewarded to stand at the podium and follow the script. For the most part, the kids are not mature enough to understand the meaning of speculative rhetoric — that superstitious people tend to believe what they hear over and over, again. From the very beginning, Mormon’s are taught to cry on queue — ‘tis sacred.

    Romney has never served in the US Armed Forces, nor have his sons.

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