Empowered little girls frighten Donald Wildmon

Guest Post by Morbo

As the Carpetbagger mentioned earlier this week, the Rev. Donald Wildmon of the American Family Association (AFA) has come out swinging against a popular line of dolls beloved by little girls all over the country.

Wildmon, everyone’s favorite witch-finder general, has from his perch in Tupelo, Miss., set his sights on dolls for preteen girls produced by the American Girl Company.

I wanted to weigh in on this matter because I happen to be very familiar with these dolls, which represent spunky girls from various historical periods. My 11-year-old daughter has approximately 704 of these dolls and their accessories — and believe me, there are a lot of accessories.

I also once took my daughter to the American Girl Place in Chicago, a kind of surreal parallel universe occupied exclusively by 8-12 year old girls walking around with dolls in the crooks of their arms. (Occasionally you see a male sibling who was obviously dragged along, looking equally bewildered and horrified.)

What is American Girl’s crime? The company, which is now owned by Mattel, is selling an “I Can” wristband that supports a national advocacy group called Girls Inc. This group, according to its mission statement, seeks to inspire girls “to be strong, smart and bold.” (An AG press release noted that the “berry-colored” band “can be worn as a bracelet, a ponytail holder, a zipper pull, a backpack charm, or however a girl chooses to express her individuality.” That is so American Girl. You see, you don’t have to wear it as a wristband; it’s all about empowerment.)

The Girls Inc. initiatives being supported by the band sales deal with three areas: one builds girls’ skills in science and math, a second develops leadership skills and the third encourages athletic prowess and participation in team sports.

The Associated Press reported that Girls Inc., which traces its roots back to an organization founded in 1864, serves about 800,000 girls per year, many of them from low-income families. However, the group does engage in some advocacy. It believes that women must have reproductive freedom, and its supports girls who may be lesbian or bisexual.

That was enough to get Wildmon going. He has called for conservative Christians to boycott American Girl and has dragged his “pro-life” allies into the cause. Wildmon claims that American Girl dolls are popular among conservatives and says his boycott will pack a punch.

I’m not so sure about that.

To be sure, the AG company does promote many traditional values. For example, it reminds pre-teen girls that it’s OK to be a girl — to care about best friends over boyfriends and make believe over make-up. American Girl advises preteens not to be in a hurry to become teenagers, and it helps parents resist trends that sexualize children at a young age or urge them to grow up too fast. I’ve always liked that about the company.

But at the same time, American Girl sends a strong message of girl empowerment, and I suspect this is what’s really bothering Wildmon. The AG books that come with the dolls portray plucky heroines who tell their girl readers, “You can do or be what you want. Knowledge is the key. Don’t be afraid to try.” In the books, the girl protagonists are strong figures who solve problems and take action on their own. They don’t sit around waiting for some boy to rescue them. These are proto-feminists. I don’t see any of them growing up to be barefoot and pregnant or gleefully submitting to some Promise Keeper. That’s not the American Girl way.

American Girl also publishes a line of non-fiction books that use plain, frank but entirely non-alarming language to let girls know what they can expect as they mature and their bodies, minds and emotions change. If you have a 8-12 girl in your home, I highly recommend the AG title The Care & Keeping of You: The Body Book for Girls. Books like this must make Wildmon shudder. There’s even a section on menstruation!

In the end, I think Wildmon is not so much worked up about abortion or gay rights as he is about female empowerment. Wildmon attacks American Girl for the same reason that Focus on the Family whales on the Girl Scouts: If you start telling girls they have rights, they might start exercising them. If you tell them to aim high, they just might. Who knows where that might lead?

And most terrifying of all to the fundamentalists, if you inspire young girls with strong role models, they could become less likely later in life to swallow implausible stories about how God, almost as an afterthought, created a woman from the rib of a man primarily to serve and submit.

I too am a father of an American Girl girl in addition to a participating family in Girls,Inc. All I an say is “HAVE THEY NO SHAME”

  • I think this is an empty threat. Can you imagine any force on earth coming between little girls and their dolls?? Speaking as someone who once was a proud owner of 17 dolls, I can only shake my head at the sad booby who thinks this will work.

  • Calling the religious right the American Taliban is becoming a cliche but there is substance there.

    Enough men are afraid of the varied powers of females that they want to nip that potential power and influence within society right in the bud. This “empowering girls” stuff eventually leads to empowered women and they will have none of it. It scares the hell out of them to ponder an assault on their male-centric, patriarchial paradigm.

    Information and education are power. Donald Wildmon is a sissy. He isn’t needed by a smart woman who’s been taught how to take care of herself. If he doesn’t create a need for himself by keeping females subservient and helpless, he won’t be needed for anything. And really, he isn’t.

    Kind of scary, isn’t it Donald. A**hole……

  • How sad is it that while at dinner this evening, a commercial had to air on MSNBC stating that my daughter’s beloved Nellie doll is at the center of political debate and controversy. Of course she is outraged and wants to know why…After having read this article, I am disgusted! It is because of men like you, Donald, that a woman will never run the White House. You should be ashamed of yourself. You are shutting down females before they even have a chance to grow and become someone. Do you have children or better yet, a little girl? I have 2 and proudly, we own 5 American Girl and Bitty Baby dolls between the 2 of them…MY SON ALSO OWNS A BITTY BABY BOY…are you going after them too??? Did you even know that the company manufactured boy dolls??? With sll of the things going on in the world today that are far worse than this, can you please find something else to focus your attention on…You really are a loser…

  • Oh and one more thing…My children all attend Catholic Schools, where many of their friends also own the dolls and we aren’t boycotting anything…If anything, I thank you for bringing attention to the important message that AG is trying to send…In the words of my 7 yr old daughter

    “GIRLS RULE”

  • I am a suburban mom of a 5-year old girl. I have the supportive hardworking husband, big house and playroom stocked with all things girly. I am also a firmer “troubled teen”. But I got through a hard time because I had parents with the means, both financial and emotional, to get me through a hard time. I never forget waht I went thorugh and I also never forget that some girls are not as lucky as I was. Let me be clear, I never thought any child of mine would have a Barbie or be princess crazy. I was wrong. I also never thought I’d buy an American Girl. Too expensive, too commercial and American Girl Place was too crazy. I was wrong again. I will but an American Girl and I will do it happily, despite the high price tag (8 times more than a Barbie). I will do it because I support a company that supports girls in any way. If the Conservative Right thinks they can join together and boycot American Girl and Girls Inc., they should go right ahead. The Liberal Left come together and do the opposite. I will support both of these companies and I will buy an American Girl. I will also donate money to Girls Inc. I will do it because I believe in girls, American or not.

  • The boycott isn’t about empowerment from my understanding. It has to do with teaching the girls it’s okay to kill your baby if you dress it up by calling it reproductive freedom, or it’s okay to commit adultery and engage in the abomination of homosexuality as long as you feel empowered by it. Women are one of God’s best creations and as a Christian mom of a beautiful daughter I teach her that! I also teach her murder is wrong and adultery is wrong; not because I say so or don’t like it, but because God says so. My daughter is a brilliant math/science student and I encourage her to be all she can be, but to remember that this life is temporary and her next one won’t be, so to be true to God first, self second. I pray for her daily and know she’s a holy baptized child of God, which ultimately will be her greatest gift and following whether she’s a desk clerk or the first female President of the United States!! Let’s not lose site of the Truth.

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