Plenty of sex but no education

Guest Post by Morbo

Just how out of it is the Religious Right when it comes to sex education in America? Consider this: A recent poll shows that 67 percent support the distribution of contraceptives in public schools.

The new poll by the Associated Press-Ipsos shows that most people favor a system of parental consent, and qualms remain about the possibility of sending mixed messages. But by and large, the American public has made up its mind on the issue of sex education and birth control: Young people are going to have sex, so they should learn about ways to protect themselves against unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

This issue came to the fore recently after a public school in Portland, Me., announced that it would provide birth control to middle school students without parental consent. I don’t go that far. These kids are too young (11 to 13), and the parents need to be involved in the process.

Between the extreme of unfettered access for 11-year-olds and the view of the Religious Right — that teens should be indoctrinated with medically inaccurate, often overly religious “fear-based” abstinence-only programs that do not work — is a sensible middle ground. Most of the American public is perching there. It is a place assiduously avoided by the Bush administration.

Whenever anyone tells me that the Religious Right is a dying movement with no real power, I point to this issue (as well as John Roberts and Samuel Alito). Sex education programs are just one area where the Religious Right has had real success, much to the detriment of our youngsters.

Thanks to theocratic Bible brigades, federal law prohibits the discussion of artificial forms of birth control in sex education program funded by tax dollars. These programs are not “abstinence-based,” they are “abstinence-only.” The distinction is important. The former includes programs that, while stressing the importance of abstinence for young people, includes discussion of birth control. The latter is a delusion cooked up by fundamentalist Christians and orthodox Catholics that has been shown, time and again, to be ineffective.

Some states, frustrated with this approach, rejected the money. But most took it and farmed the sex “education” out to religious fanatics who tell kids that most condoms break or that you can get pregnant from oral sex. Then they talk about Jesus.

This is not the approach the American people want. Yet it’s the one we have. In the year 2007. It’s time for a change. It’s also time for the Democratic candidates to start talking about how they’ll change it. The answer is easy: Cut off every tax dime to the “faith-based” promoters of the abstinence-only delusion. They can still spread their religion and bad medical advice — with their own money.

The abstinence-only crowd is motivated by fear of s-e-x, and it’s a very powerful motivator. They show up at meetings and shout hysterically when real sex education is discussed.

We won’t make any progress on this issue until the 67% is as highly motivated as the 33%.

  • I don’t go that far. These kids are too young (11 to 13), and the parents need to be involved in the process.

    This comment shows that you, like the people you are writing about, you don’t seem to understand the need for birth control for young people of any age.

    My question to you is: Who is going to convince them to tell their parents?

    Our bodies are sexually mature LONG before it’s socially acceptable for them to be so. The problem is, as usual, that our bodies are always way ahead of our minds and the biological imperative is for sex. To make matters worse, we’re a culture that jokes about sex, puts half naked people on ads on the sides of school buses to sell candy bars using sex but then we tell kids – you’re not old enough to know about this yet.

    I was the girl who was 13 and having sex and there was no way in hell I was going to tell my mother. As if.

    And whether I was too young or not is stupid to debate 23 years later. The important thing was that it wasn’t until a sex ed class that I actually realized that I could have a baby and didn’t want to.

    And my boyfriend at the time didn’t even know about condoms. He didn’t have sex ed until the next quarter. So I told him what I knew and we made the trek to Walgreen’s together. We didn’t even know enough to be embarrassed or realize that we had made a very adult decision. We laughed over the packaging and plunked them down on the counter, bold as brass and paid for them along with our Yoohoo’s and bubblegum.

    Fortunately, there was no Pharmacists for Life to tell us we were too young and shouldn’t be having sex anyway or that birth control is murder. If the clerk thought anything was odd, they sure didn’t say so. We were able to buy what we needed without interference and that kept us from being another teen pregnancy statistic.

    Besides, when it comes to kids, adults conveniently forget that the secrecy and intimacy of sex is half the fun. Just because adults are uncomfortable with the idea or think that only they were “ready” back when it was their turn, doesn’t make it ok to limit the choices of young people today.

    Teens, and yes even pre-teens, should have access to birth control.

  • “a public school in Portland, Me., announced that it would provide birth control to middle school students without parental consent.”

    Well, not really…students have to get permission from their parents to be treated at all.

    Students treated at the centers must first get written parental permission, but under state law such treatment is confidential, and students decide for themselves whether to tell their parents about the services they receive…

  • ***yes Deborah*** agree totally. Adults want to ignore the reality and end up complicating exactly what they are hoping to prevent.
    How absurd is it to want to prevent abortions while denying contraceptive protections to prevent pregnancies?

    Catholics used to make masturbation a sin (don’t know if they ever changed that) that you should confess in confession. Ignoring the reality of puberty. Adults need to take control of this issue and become more responsible and sensible in just stating the facts and offering prevention. How else do they expect to ever combat aids. So far religion has dominated this issue rather than reality and that needs to change immediately.

  • .Education is a critical part of stopping teenage pregnancy.
    First educate the parents, and then educate the kids. To bypass one group is to invite conflict and digression from the real argument.

    The social cost to countless generations of uneducated people is high. The flow-on effects of teenage pregnancy are seen in our social programs to assist those who experience it. Child support programs, grandparents relying on parenting payments, broken marriages, homeless children, and multiple social problems all have a link to teenage pregnancy.

    Education should cover the social, physical and moral aspects of underage sex. The responsibility for this education ultimately lies with the individual and not our churches, government or social groups. These mediums are merely platforms through which the individual should be able to freely express educated facts that teach others

    The financial burden of supporting teenage pregnancy is carried in our tax system and by us as carers for those teenagers. Debt support can be found, but it is there as an “after the fact” social safeguard. Education costs and everybody has an obligation to bear the financial burden for education now, not after the fact.

    I have spent a lot of time educating people in my career, but now I have re-focused this to educate people about everyday life issues. It’s a challenge, but enjoyable.

    Education is a key, and the only competition we have in improving our lot, is our own ignorance.
    I think Einstein said the only difference between a genius and a fool is that you can’t teach a genius anything.

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