Teenagers sometimes have sex — even when they say they won’t

We’ve known for a while that [tag]abstinence[/tag]-only policies are costly, inaccurate, and ineffective. But the one element of this debate that often gets overlooked is the fact that teenagers sometimes have sex, even when they say they won’t.

[tag]Virginity pledges[/tag], in which young people vow to abstain from sex until marriage, have little staying power among those who take them, a Harvard study has found.

More than half of the adolescents who make the signed public promises give up on their pledges within a year, according to the study released last week.

I know, I can tell how surprised you are.

Of course, studies like this are not just helpful in explaining why federal grants that promote these virginity pledges are probably a waste, but also why the conservatives’ opposition to [tag]contraception[/tag] is such a foolish approach to public policy.

The wheels of history have a tendency to roll back over the same ground. For the past 33 years — since, as they see it, the wanton era of the 1960’s culminated in the Supreme Court’s Roe v. Wade decision in 1973 — American social conservatives have been on an unyielding campaign against abortion. But recently, as the conservative tide has continued to swell, this campaign has taken on a broader scope. Its true beginning point may not be Roe but Griswold v. Connecticut, the 1965 case that had the effect of legalizing contraception. “We see a direct connection between the practice of contraception and the practice of abortion,” says Judie Brown, president of the American Life League, an organization that has battled abortion for 27 years but that, like others, now has a larger mission. “The mind-set that invites a couple to use contraception is an antichild mind-set,” she told me. “So when a baby is conceived accidentally, the couple already have this negative attitude toward the child. Therefore seeking an abortion is a natural outcome. We oppose all forms of contraception.”

The American Life League is a lay Catholic organization, and for years — especially since Pope Paul VI’s “Humanae Vitae” encyclical of 1968 forbade “any action which either before, at the moment of or after sexual intercourse, is specifically intended to prevent procreation” — being anti-contraception was largely a Catholic thing. Protestants and other non-Catholics tended to look on curiously as they took part in the general societywide acceptance of various forms of birth control. But no longer. Organizations like the Christian Medical and Dental Associations, which inject a mixture of religion and medicine into the social sphere, operate from a broadly Christian perspective that includes opposition to some forms of birth control. Edward R. Martin Jr., a lawyer for the public-interest law firm Americans United for Life, whose work includes seeking to restrict abortion at the state level and representing pharmacists who have refused to prescribe emergency contraception, told me: “We see contraception and abortion as part of a mind-set that’s worrisome in terms of respecting life. If you’re trying to build a culture of life, then you have to start from the very beginning of life, from conception, and you have to include how we think and act with regard to sexuality and contraception.” Dr. Joseph B. Stanford, who was appointed by President Bush in 2002 to the F.D.A.’s Reproductive Health Drugs Advisory Committee despite (or perhaps because of) his opposition to contraception, sounded not a little like Daniel Defoe in a 1999 essay he wrote: “Sexual union in marriage ought to be a complete giving of each spouse to the other, and when fertility (or potential fertility) is deliberately excluded from that giving I am convinced that something valuable is lost. A husband will sometimes begin to see his wife as an object of sexual pleasure who should always be available for gratification.”

As with other efforts — against gay marriage, stem cell research, cloning, assisted suicide — the anti-birth-control campaign isn’t centralized; it seems rather to be part of the evolution of the conservative movement. The subject is talked about in evangelical churches and is on the agenda at the major Bible-based conservative organizations like Focus on the Family and the Christian Coalition. It also has its point people in Congress — including Representative Roscoe Bartlett of Maryland, Representative Chris Smith of New Jersey, Representative Joe Pitts and Representative Melissa Hart of Pennsylvania and Senator Tom Coburn of Oklahoma — all Republicans who have led opposition to various forms of contraception.

It’s helpful to have such a clear distinction. The left says, “Women should have reproductive freedom.” The right says, “No.” The left says, “The abortion rate would decrease if more Americans received comprehensive sex education in schools.” The right says, “No.” The left says, “Access to safe and effective contraception is a responsible approach to public health.” The right says, “No.”

Got it.

The left says, “Sex can be done just for fun.” The right says, “That’s what prostitutes are for.”

This is fascinating stuff. They are actually trying to affect people’s minds. Twice in your article they talk about mind-sets. They don’t want people to think sex is for anything but state and church-sanctioned procreation.

Yet they let frat-Boy George II be their leader, the man who thinks that Katrina cleanup needs only go to the point of re-opening the strip clubs!

There is something frankly sickening about the unholy alliance of the Theocratic Reactionaries and the Frat-boy (not so) Young Republicans against liberty and women.

  • This country’s awareness of, and respect for, science is simply atrocious. It’s off the scale in all international comparisons. Americans, as a general rule, are hopelessly uneducated, in the arts as well as the sciences … which is strange considering how many of us have experienced what passes as a college education here. I’m always impressed, every time they do a TV news story on the most recent winner of the Nobel prize in some area of science, that the interviewer will ask “Now without all that scientific mumbo-jumbo, what’s the point of your work?” I always wonder why the interviewee doesn’t just say “F*** you” and be done with it. One (an economist several years ago) had the courage to answer “You wouldn’t understand.”

    Is it any wonder that a population which believes in angels and devils, and doesn’t “believe in” evolution, has no interest in data on abortion rates and precious little knowledge about the bioligcal processess involved in conception? All such a population “needs” is the Patriarchal Fiat: “No!”, whether that patriarch be Pope Benedict XVI or a snaggle-toothed drooling hillbilly who, by Gawd, is a-gonna have his way with his daughter and vote agin’ them libruls.

  • But the one element of this debate that often gets overlooked is the fact that teenagers sometimes have sex, even when they say they won’t.

    Biology and hormones trump empty promises? Who’d have thunk it?

    Oh, right, they don’t believe in all that science hooey.

    An abstinence only policy fits right in to the, er, right. A little of the do as I say, wink wink, and don’t get caught doing anything else vibe.

  • While Dr. Stanford works the word “object” in to try and sound like his is the pro-feminist position, his quote really shows what this strain of right-wing extremism is really about – as my minor edits try to highlight:

    Sexual union in marriage ought to be a complete giving of each spouse to the other, and when fertility (or potential fertility) is deliberately excluded from that . . . A [spouse] will sometimes begin to see [such union] as an [source] of sexual pleasure . . .

    This is a bizarre attempt at forcing asceticism on all of us. The real enemy of the right is pleasure, or more specifically in this instance, sexual pleasure, like that is inherently bad. It was one thing to say it is bad for irresponsible teenagers, bad outside of marriage, etc — but now they’ve dropped all pretense and simply say sex for the pleasure of it — even as a form of expression in a loving relationship with a spouse — is wrong.

    If these folks want to join monestaries, they can and should. But why force that desire (oops – bad word) on the rest of us? Where does all of this guilt come from? Maybe these righties are just all having really, really bad and unpleasurable sex and fear that the rest of us are enjoying something they are missing out on and they want that stopped immediately?!?

    Perhaps some of those prostitutes of Mr. Cunningham’s would do these over-wound neo-puritans some good.

  • “But why force that desire (oops – bad word) on the rest of us?” – Zeitgeist

    Ah, the motivations of Evangelicals.

    I recommend Bart Erhman’s book “Misquoting Jesus” to everybody.

    In it, he makes two important points everybody should understand about Christianity:
    1). Jesus thought that the world of evil and sin we live in would be overthrown and a new Kingdom of God established, on Earth, before the last of his generation died,
    2). By the second century of the Christian Era, people were starting to notice that the second coming of Jesus hadn’t happened yet. Like most people who have been proven wrong and don’t want to admit it, they started to get even more extreme in their beliefs. Thus scribes copying the books of the New Testiment started adding an even more extreme asceticism to the Scriptures, including telling even married couples to abstain from sex even for procreation. I suppose they thought that something had to be done to bring about the end times and the kingdom of God.

    So what does that tell us about the Evangelicals today? They probably believe that my sexual freedom and yours are part of the reason we don’t yet have a second coming and the Kingdom of God. Now, don’t you want to straighten up and fly right, so they can skip the whole dying thing and go directly to paradise?

  • So, their freedom of religion trumps my freedom from religion.
    If they have the might (legislatures filled with theocrats), they have the right to do this.
    Might makes right.
    Now where have I heard this before?
    Gott Mit Uns.

  • To certain people, freedom of Religion means the freedom to proselytize everybody who has the wrong (or no) religion.

    And to a subset of them, freedom of religion means the right to oppress those who won’t convert once proselytized. Just study the recent scandel at the Air Force Academy if you don’t believe me.

    Yes, BuzzMon, their need to avoid dying like everybody else trumps your desire to live your own life, in their opinion.

  • The Republican War on Sex could well be what splits their coalition. It’s just not going to sit well with the American people, who distrust authoritarian governance anyway, to be told that they can only use their nasty bits for procreation, and that they aren’t supposed to enjoy even doing that.

    I know we on the left are supposed to place Bush at the center of all that’s wrong in the country and the world, but I don’t honestly believe that he shares this view. That isn’t to say that he (or, more honestly, Rove) wouldn’t cling to “the base” and appeal to their worst instincts as a matter of political survival, but I don’t think this self-indulgent former gadabout is a theocrat at heart.

  • “I know we on the left are supposed to place Bush at the center of all that’s wrong in the country and the world, but I don’t honestly believe that he shares this view [that sex is only for procreation and even then shouldn’t be fun].” – dajafi

    I think that’s true too, especially after Boy George II’s comments about all the good times he spent in New Orleans. Does he play the hypocrite and let the Theocratic Reactionaries push their anti-fun-sex policies further? Hard to say, when he needs to motivate his base to win (or seem to, diebol willing) in 2006. But I have to believe that this will split off more moderates.

  • Well, this answers the question I asked over at Kevin Drum’s blog, why virginity pledge/abstinence only supporters oppose education regarding contraception or at least downplay its rates of effectiveness. But it concerns me that some here ascribe sexist/prudish/puritanical motivations to abstinence-only crowd. Though I certainly don’t agree with their views, I don’t sense these people have ulterior motives – they seem sincere – and simply labeling them as theocratic zealots isn’t much of a political strategy.

    I’m not sure what the correct strategy might be, but I do know that there are reasons to use contraception beyond the contraceptive aspect. For some women the pill has a regulating effect that is desirable, makes the cycle more predictable.

    But to the point of one of the quotes in the article, I can’t imagine that if we became pregnant that we’d consider the child an inconvenience. These folks are really underestimating the transformative power of child bearing and rearing.

  • A synonym for faith is wishful thinking. Wishful thinking and ignorance never worked for the good of anything.

    Ideologues work in the abstract. But the kids that are affected by the right’s ignorance-only sex ed would in a good number of countries (and even some states) be of age to marry. I agree with doubtful. Hormones are far too strong to be contained by a silver ring thing or a vow of chastity.

  • Every story about these people should include information about how many children they have. If it’s fewer than eight, they should be asked why.

  • What I would really like to see is a study on how many of these Relgious Right pro-lifers go out and adopt children who were born to mothers who either couldn’t take care of their children or didn’t want to.

    I’d also like to see how many of these Religious Right pro-lifers are in support of the welfare system which provides for families that do have children and can’t support them at the standard of living all children should receive.

    I’ll wait here patiently while they get that data together.

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