The Frost family fiasco: a right-wing smear gone awry

At this point, the jig is just about up. The right-wing mob grabbed their torches and pitchforks, went after a struggling, down-on-their-luck family of six, only to find that the real villains were the ones leading the mindless gang in misguided rage.

Time’s Karen Tumulty did a piece on the conservative smear of 12-year-old Graeme Frost and his family, highlighting nearly all of the right’s errors of fact and judgment. The Frosts, understandably, are turning down media requests, but the father sent Tumulty a helpful perspective.

He … passed along a letter from a friend, Andrew Gray, who wrote: “Chances are, Bonnie, Halsey and their kids will survive this. The sad reality is that they’ve already been through much worse. But what does it say about us as a nation that we seek to destroy the reputations of those we should honor? Have we become so cynical and nasty that we no longer can recognize simple courage and decency?”

Politics has never been a gentle game. As far back as 1895, satirist Finley Peter Dunne’s fictional saloonkeeper Martin Dooley observed that women, children and prohibitionists would do well to stay out of it, because “politics ain’t beanbag.” But surely, even Mr. Dooley could never have imagined a day would come when a mere seventh grader could be swift-boated.

Hard to imagine, and yet, here we are.

As for one of the leading members of the right-wing mob, Michelle Malkin whined the other day that too few of us on the left fail to recognize a “good-faith argument.” (No, she apparently did not appreciate the irony.) Ezra Klein responded with a bit of a challenge to Malkin: “Let’s have a good faith argument. I will debate Michelle Malkin anytime, anywhere, in any forum (save HotAir TV, which she controls), on the particulars of S-CHIP. We can set the debate at a think tank, on BloggingHeads, over IM. Hell, we can set up the podiums in the shrubbery outside my house, since that seems to be the sort of venue she naturally seeks out. And then if Malkin wants an argument, she can have one. We’ll talk S-CHIP and nothing but — nothing of the Frosts, or Congress, or her blog.”

So, are we going to get a good-faith policy argument? Alas, no.

Malkin responded yesterday:

“Debate” Ezra Klein? What a perverse distraction and a laughable waste of time that would be. And that’s what they really want, isn’t it? To distract and waste time so they can foist their agenda on the country unimpeded.

Yes, of course. A discussion about S-CHIP — allegedly what the debate is all about — in a forum of Malkin’s choosing would obviously be a “waste of time.” The goal is to destroy, smear, and intimidate. Why get “distracted” by trivia such as meaningful policy debates? What good could possibly come of that? How would that advance the goal of smearing a 12-year-old and his family, deterring others from standing up in the future?

Speaking of Malkin, a 2004 post of hers is making the rounds.

After my husband quit his job earlier this year (to become a full-time stay-at-home dad), we had a choice. We could either buy health insurance from his former employer through a program called COBRA at a cost of more than $1,000 per month(!) or we could go it alone in Maryland’s individual market. Given our financial circumstances, that “choice” wasn’t much of a choice at all. We had to go on our own.

We discovered that the most generous plans in Maryland’s individual market cost $700 per month yet provide no more than $1,500 per year of prescription drug coverage–a drop in the bucket if someone in our family were to be diagnosed with a serious illness.

With health insurance choices like that, no wonder so many people opt to go uninsured.

That was three years ago — and the plans are far more expensive now. Digby responds:

Malkin and her husband are lucky enough to qualify for wingnut welfare and have healthy children. Bully for them. They got theirs and are now railing against the “choices” made by two working parents who make 45,000 a year. But I think she and her stalker squad are going to be surprised to find that most people don’t see things their way — this smug judgmentalism and rank callousness is not the American way. That’s not what freedom is all about.

And I think they may be even more surprised to find that a lot of American businesses are going to get on board health care reform in a big way. They are beginning to see the writing on the wall if we don’t get a grip on this crisis. Tax cuts will not rein in costs. They will not mitigate the kind of risk required to compete in the global marketplace. They will not ensure a healthy workforce. And without that, we’ve got serious, serious problems. At least some people who want to keep making money in America must see that even if the blind ideologues of the right don’t.

One other thought. I’m still curious about what role, if any, Republicans on the Hill had in pushing this smear.

Republican congressional offices say they had nothing to do with the investigative reporting work of the conservative bloggers. But at the same time, they did nothing to distance themselves from the byproduct of that work.

“We’re clearly going to promote the truth and show Democrats didn’t do their research” into whether the Frost family should be receiving subsidized health care, said one Senate GOP aide. “We’re going to ride this story.”

That was yesterday afternoon, after all the right-wing arguments had been exposed as nonsense. And they still want to “ride this story,” as if it helps the right-wing cause.

There’s something deeply wrong with these people.

I love the exposing of hypocrytes, nothing better.

  • There’s something deeply wrong with these people.

    Yes, but the real problem is their bosses. I wish the person who pays Malkin’s salary could be forced to watch her doing her schtick, and watch her do it after spending a bunch of time with the family she’s smearing. Maybe they could all watch her doing her thing together, and talk about what she says. I wonder if Malkin’s boss would have the courage to do that? I doubt it.

    But if they did, maybe that would wake them up to what they’re doing when they give her a microphone.

  • The effectiveness of a smear campaign is that the retractions later when the truth comes out can never undo the original charges.

    I am truly sorry that this has happened to the Frost family.

  • As contemptible as the rightwing targeting of this 12-year-old boy and his family is, we need to note that the Democrats exploited these people also, thrusting this child into the maelstrom by having him reply to President’ Bush’s weekly radio address. The machinations of both sides should be deplored. Neither side has a monopoly on purity of motive.

  • Exploited? The child needs the program Bush wants to scale back, how is giving him an outlet to talk about his interests and those of his family “exploitation”?

  • the Democrats exploited these people also, thrusting this child into the maelstrom by having him reply to President’ Bush’s weekly radio address

    Well, no, it was a bi-partisan push to publicize the need for the new S Chip bill. Republicans want it, too.

  • Think any of these people have been to the website for the Maryland CHIP program to see what the details are? In case you want to see for yourself, here’ s the link: http://dhmh.state.md.us/mma/mchp/

    And here’s the link to the pdf for income limits for eligibility: http://dhmh.state.md.us/mma/mchp/pdf/MCHPFamilyIncomeEnglish307.pdf

    Malkin’s response to Ezra is not at all surprising, but it is frustrating; we see this kind of thing over and over again. We don’t seem to be afraid of debate, of conversation, of dialogue – they, on the other hand, must be, don’t you think? And why would that be? My own theory is that it’s hard to debate with any strength or credibility if you don’t have a command of the facts; you have to know the other side in order to debate it, and I don’t think the Malkinites have any interest in knowing the whole story. She – and others – just want to build a case to support their opinion, and even if what they use to build it isn’t true or doesn’t hold up to scrutiny, they still want to disseminate it to as many people as possible – perhaps on the theory that somehow the more people who believe things that aren’t true, the greater the likelihood that it will be accepted as truth (See: Bush, George W.).

    People like Malkin seem to fear that their carefully constructed world will come crashing to the ground if they have to admit that someone else was right and they were wrong. I guess I don’t understand that, and wonder why it is that people cannot take the issues as they come, make informed decisions about them, and not worry that it may or may not fit into some precisely-measured ideological box.

    I guess the key word is “fear;” I don’t understand fear of knowledge and learning, but I think I see that fear more on the right side of the aisle than I do on the left.

  • The fact is that getting someone’s address on the web is frightfully easy. Go to Google’s “white pages” and almost everybody in the US is listed.

    It’s not like Malkin and her kind had a tough job here.

  • Harold in Buffalo: I think “exploit” is the wrong choice of word. The family was probably honored and energized to be given such an important national forum to air their difficulties. Their objective was selflessness: to get help for others in similar straits.

    No, the bad is ALL on the right-wing side in this one. Can you imagine Goldwater, or even Nixon (publicly) advancing this kind of smear against so sympathetic a speaker? Reagan? Bush, Sr?

    Something is horribly wrong with these people. They love intangibles: money, power, influence. What in the world do they think our government is FOR? “National defense” should include health care and an economic safety net, at minimum.

  • It doesn’t matter whether it was hard to get the Frosts’ address and other information – what matters is what someone did – or could do – with it. This is standard practice for Malkin – she’s done it numerous times before, and all to make sure the people whose information was revealed were subjected to a campaign of hate. And she does it with the knowledge that she may be putting it in the hands of someone who is less than mentally stable, who might think that Malkin supplying the information was tantamount to permission to attack in whatever way the reader deemed necessary.

    Yes, you or I or any of Malkin’s readers could Google the information ourselves, but I think someone in her position has a greater responsibility.

  • Harold in Buffalo –

    Are you dishonest, uniformed or dumb? Bonnie Frost has said, on record, that her family got a lot of help from the S-CHIP program and she and her family wanted to do their part to point out the good that this program has done for them, and the potential good it could do for others.

    That’s NOT EXPLOITATION. They went in with their eyes open that the goal of their radio address was to educate people as to the benefits of the program using their own life experience. That’s advocacy by someone who has been helped by the program. It’s something that in a decent society is appreciated even by opponents of the program. And if the opposition could debate it ON THE MERITS then they wouldn’t be smearing 12 year old kids and working-class entrepenuers like they’ve spent the last week doing. That’s the part that the family didn’t have their eyes open about – that our political discourse has reached a point where it’s somehow acceptable to stalk a family who voices an opinion about something that helped them. Of course, if you’re working to provide food, shelter and health care to four kids, I can see how the current corrosive state of politics might fall off your radar.

    Again – NOT EXPLOITATION. People pointing out that they’re benefitting from a program and would like to keep it going is not exploitative at all – it’s democratic. What the hell kind of debate can we have if the people who benefit from a program are supposed to keep their yaps shut about their experiences with it? One that benefits right-wingers who want to shut down government programs and that’s about it.

  • NonyNony

    What the hell kind of debate can we have if the people who benefit from a program are supposed to keep their yaps shut about their experiences with it?

    Yep! And in another arena, Bush’s torture program, what kind of debate can we have if the people who were damaged from it, such as Khaled el-Masri, are supposed to shut up? No less than the Supreme Court of the US has shut him up.

    There’s a rightwing push from every corner of influence — public, private, legal, corporate, and legislative — to silence everyone who disagrees with their agenda.

  • I would call this a “Schiavo” of the Frost family. To “Swiftboat” is to foster doubt about undeniable but uncomfortable facts. To “Schiavo” is the shameless savaging of a common, ordinary, every day American suffering a family tragedy for cheap, partisan political pot-shots.

  • I think somebody needs to respond to this by hounding Michelle Malkin.

    Maybe somebody can find and print her address and other personal information on the net. Then they can show up at her house, with a giant-sized placard featuring her text from 2004 on health care that was just reprinted here.

    I would like to call the process of exposing, and getting in-the-fact of these right-wing extremist bullies and cowards, ‘Malkinization.’

  • Slopsuckers like Malkin will squeal like a stuck pig, all day and into the night, taunting people with their “dare” to debate the issue—but whenever someone takes them up on the dare, they run for the nearest sty. You’d think someone just showed up with one of those tow-behind barbecue grills and a taste for roast pork.

    Please—send Malkin’s misfits to MY house. I’ll get the charcoal ready….

  • Michelle Malkin proves that there is indeed life for over-the-hill Olongapo Boom-Boom Girls.

  • Tenpointtype (9):

    “No, the bad is ALL on the right-wing side in this one. Can you imagine Goldwater, or even Nixon (publicly) advancing this kind of smear against so sympathetic a speaker? Reagan? Bush, Sr?”

    Well, I can imagine Ronnie Reagan doing the same thing! And I can imagine G.W.H. Bush doing it. And R. M. Nixon, if need be. I’m not sure B. Goldwater would have done so, but his handlers might well have.

  • Jesus people, the issues make no difference to people like Malkin. They are so filled with hate that issues become only reasons to attack democrats or liberals. There is never any discussion with these Malkinettes, it’s condemn smear and hate. They would stick their fingers in their ears and mumble to keep from hearing anything a liberal might have to say. They are so filled with hate and rage that reason is no longer possible…only how best to get “them”. Face it, 30% of the population are violently insane and they have been empowered by the press to believe they are the majority. It does no good to talk to them because they won’t allow it and will call you names and stalk you for even trying to reason with them. This is what Bush/Cheney has done to the country…dividing it,… with one third unwilling to work with the other two thirds…It makes them easier to control.

  • Of course Malkin declined. A reasoned exchange is not her, or her mob’s schtick. I think a commenter on Ezra put it best:
    “One side wants a debate club, one side wants a war.”

  • Thank you for a well written, informative article. It made my heart sink to hear what the right wing, talking parrots have done to this child and his family. It leaves you speechless. No one is off limits to this gang. It’s just despicable !

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